AI-Powered Parenting: Nurture Your Child's Curiosity with ChatGPT
As a dad of a curious 4-year-old, I'm bombarded with "why" questions. His spongy mind keeps me alert â and sometimes clueless. đ From "Why does electricity go through sand?" to "Why can't we see thunder?"Â
I always go down the why path as far as possible, but eventually, I get stuck â I don't know the answer, he doesn't accept my answer, or I struggle to answer in a kid-friendly way.
That's where ChatGPT comes in.
After being inspired by a comment from
on his "How Do You Use ChatGPT?" podcast, I started exploring how AI could help me tackle my son's "why"Â questions.I found that using ChatGPT to engage your child's curiosity is simple and fun. Here's a step-by-step guide you can try with your kids, younger relatives, or friends' offspring.
In this edition, we explore how AI can help parents nurture their children's curiosity. Don't worry if you don't have kids â we've got plenty of AI-powered productivity tips and insights unrelated to parenting in the weeks ahead! (See the P.S. at the end for upcoming topics.)
1. Prime ChatGPT for kid-friendly responses
Let ChatGPT know you're asking questions with a child for age-appropriate responses1:
"I'm having a conversation with my {insert age} year old {child/cousin/etc.}, and they're asking a series of "why" questions. Please answer their questions in an age-appropriate way using simple language and relatable analogies where helpful. We'll be asking follow-up questions, so please continue to provide responses suitable for their age."
Once you've used this prompt, ChatGPT will maintain its simplicity for a while and then start giving more complex answers again. When you notice this, add "explain appropriately for a {insert age} year old" at the end of the next question.
2. Dive into the 'why' adventure with your child
Now, let your kid fire off questions. They can speak into the ChatGPT mobile app (which has a voice function), or you can type their queries into the browser interface.
Here's an interaction from Lewis (our son) and me:
đ§đŚ: "Can lightning shoot from here to Mars?"
đ¤: "Lightning can't shoot from Earth to Mars because lightning can't travel that far. Lightning likes to jump from cloud to cloud or from the clouds to the ground, but only here on Earth, where it can breathe and move. Between Earth and Mars, there's a lot of empty space, and lightning can't go through that empty space because there's no air. It's a bit like a fish that can't swim without water. So, lightning always stays close to home, right here on our Earth."
đ§đŚ: "Why does it stay close to its home?"
đ¤: "Lightning stays close to its 'home', or close to the Earth, because it needs air to move. The air on our planet helps lightning jump from one place to another, just like you need the floor to walk. Without air, like in the space between planets, lightning can't travel or jump. It's like a bird that flies because there is air; if there was no air, the bird wouldn't be able to fly. So, lightning stays where it can 'live' and move, and that's in the air around our Earth."
ChatGPT offers clear explanations and relatable analogies to make abstract ideas concrete. I was worried Lewis wouldn't understand certain things, but the whys and follow-up questions kept coming. He seemed to love this tireless answer machine.
đĄ ChatGPT has an audio function, so you can play the answer for your child to hear!
3. Screen responses for accuracy and age-appropriateness
ChatGPT is becoming more reliable, and most young children's questions have straightforward answers. Still, the AI can sometimes generate inaccurate or unsuitable responses.Â
For example, when Lewis asked, "How does the baby go in mama's belly?" I wasn't comfortable sharing ChatGPT's response because I can anticipate his next "why": "When a mommy and daddy decide they want to have a baby, a tiny part from the daddy joins with a tiny part from the mommy inside her belly."
The desktop version of ChatGPT has a helpful "limitation"Â for these situations (compared to the mobile app): you see the written answer first and then need to press the audio button for it to play. This lets you screen before sharing it with your child.
Of course, curious kids might catch on when you hesitate to play the audio. (Lewis did and tried to persuade me to play ChatGPT's response anyway! đ)
Enhance, not escape, your parental duties
The dystopian outcome of following the above steps is a kid being handed a smartphone with ChatGPT every time they have a 'why' question. I hope that's not what you take away from this article!
I see this as a fun activity for parents and children, learning together and feeding your kids' endless curiosity and hungry brains. Try it and let me know how it goes.
See you next week!
Tim
Upcoming We Eat Robots topics (not just for parents!)
If you don't have kids, don't worry! In the coming weeks, we'll cover various AI topics to boost your productivity and personal growth:
A comparison of the latest AI models and how they can support your self-improvement and productivity.
Key insights from the New York Times journalist Ezra Klein's recent podcasts on AI.
A guide to creating an advanced AI workflow using Zapier (a tool for connecting different apps and automating tasks), Airtable (a powerful spreadsheet-database hybrid for organizing data), and multiple AI models for generating meeting summaries that land right in your inbox.
This approach is 80% reliable. Some answers ChatGPT gives are still hard for a four-year-old to comprehend. Then again, some concepts are just difficult to explain to a four-year-old for both AIs and humans. đÂ